Born on October 11, 1977, in Webster Groves, Missouri, he grew up in Spring, Texas. He studied at Carnegie Mellon University, earning a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree. His acting career took off with a role in the soap opera "Guiding Light" and later in the TV series "Chuck." He gained widespread recognition for his role in "White Collar." His film credits include "Magic Mike" and "The Normal Heart," for which he won a Golden Globe. He is also known for his work in theater and advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights.